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Saturday, May 22, 2010
God Help us.
I came across a friend I just got to know recently.
And my friend reminded me about this issue.
Someone once told me he is gay because he had too many "heartbreaks" when he was in his younger teenage days. Younger as in, 13-15 years old?
Ironically, he termed it as "heartbreaks."
Anyways, he's gay, and he's going for his op soon.
This is my opinion..
I find his reason extremely unreasonable.
Another one I used to hang out with, claims that he's gay because it just happened. It has to be that way. Its FATE because apparently his elder sister is very tomboy-ish thus its natural that he turns out a little soft.
I find his reason extremely unreasonable.
Another one of my friend,
He has a strong religious background.
Even when I see his parents, I get scared and self conscious.
But he's gay.
And the most depressing thing is, he has given up on the religion.
Given up.
His reason is,
He's had a rough past.
I'm not saying I'm an extremely pious person. I am definitely not. But I am a muslim. I belive in my religion and have faith in it. And I felt like I got punched in my guts when he said that he has given up on the religion. Why to that extent?
I never had an issue with gays/lesbians. But the common reason that I hear from them sometimes annoys me.
They always claim that they are just like that. They don't choose to be gay,they're just born like that. With same sexual desires as the opposite sex. They say they do not like being judged. They accuse people who condemn them or advice them to be stereotypes, hypocrites, narrow minded, cannot mind their own business etc.
That is what I see and hear every single time. I knew my friends when I was younger. I have never thought about their differences in desires before but now that I've given a thought about it, I think its a load of bull.
Once again,this is my opinion:
People who turn gay because of some reason or another, its a choice.
When you start feeling strongly for the people of the same sex as you, its your choice if you'd want to continue enjoying that feeling or to refrain yourself from feeling that way the next time it happens. Not saying you can immediately snap your fingers and stop feeling that way for the same sex,but you have to continuosly work on it to get rid of that feeling.
When you think the opposite sex never understands you and are just too much of a hassle at one point of your life, then you have the desire to get closer to people of the same sex as you. And you find that they understand you better, so you turn gay. Stop and think. That one person/people of the opposite sex who made your life miserable are not the only people in the world. Take a break and get to know more people. Not everyone is the same. Of course the person of the same sex would understand you better, they are just like you! Most of the time, they know exactly how you feel when you try to explain something.
When you think your life is bullshit and miserable because people pick on you since you appear a little bit different than the others, turn to someone to complain/scream/shout/vent to. Its no reason to turn gay because of that. What does being gay do to you? How does it help you?
When you turn gay, you face more criticisms in your life. There will always be people who detest the very sight of you and verbally abuse you. How does that help you in having a great life? If you are just turning gay/already gay because of trivial reasons like these, its sad.
Any non-straight people who reads this post would hate me to the core. They'd be having so many rebuttals in their mind to throw at my face and accuse me of being this and that.
Let me get this straight, I'm not a homophobic. I don't mean to offend. I don't intend to set up a fan page on facebook for haters to screw me on. I don't have any strong desire to turn violent towards gays. I'm just voicing out my opinions.
I'm just speaking based on my religion. If you're not, then I don't have anything against you because its not your fault. You're born that way. But if you are, this is for you.
Its extremely saddening.
And my friend reminded me about this issue.
Someone once told me he is gay because he had too many "heartbreaks" when he was in his younger teenage days. Younger as in, 13-15 years old?
Ironically, he termed it as "heartbreaks."
Anyways, he's gay, and he's going for his op soon.
This is my opinion..
I find his reason extremely unreasonable.
Another one I used to hang out with, claims that he's gay because it just happened. It has to be that way. Its FATE because apparently his elder sister is very tomboy-ish thus its natural that he turns out a little soft.
I find his reason extremely unreasonable.
Another one of my friend,
He has a strong religious background.
Even when I see his parents, I get scared and self conscious.
But he's gay.
And the most depressing thing is, he has given up on the religion.
Given up.
His reason is,
He's had a rough past.
I'm not saying I'm an extremely pious person. I am definitely not. But I am a muslim. I belive in my religion and have faith in it. And I felt like I got punched in my guts when he said that he has given up on the religion. Why to that extent?
I never had an issue with gays/lesbians. But the common reason that I hear from them sometimes annoys me.
They always claim that they are just like that. They don't choose to be gay,they're just born like that. With same sexual desires as the opposite sex. They say they do not like being judged. They accuse people who condemn them or advice them to be stereotypes, hypocrites, narrow minded, cannot mind their own business etc.
That is what I see and hear every single time. I knew my friends when I was younger. I have never thought about their differences in desires before but now that I've given a thought about it, I think its a load of bull.
Once again,this is my opinion:
People who turn gay because of some reason or another, its a choice.
When you start feeling strongly for the people of the same sex as you, its your choice if you'd want to continue enjoying that feeling or to refrain yourself from feeling that way the next time it happens. Not saying you can immediately snap your fingers and stop feeling that way for the same sex,but you have to continuosly work on it to get rid of that feeling.
When you think the opposite sex never understands you and are just too much of a hassle at one point of your life, then you have the desire to get closer to people of the same sex as you. And you find that they understand you better, so you turn gay. Stop and think. That one person/people of the opposite sex who made your life miserable are not the only people in the world. Take a break and get to know more people. Not everyone is the same. Of course the person of the same sex would understand you better, they are just like you! Most of the time, they know exactly how you feel when you try to explain something.
When you think your life is bullshit and miserable because people pick on you since you appear a little bit different than the others, turn to someone to complain/scream/shout/vent to. Its no reason to turn gay because of that. What does being gay do to you? How does it help you?
When you turn gay, you face more criticisms in your life. There will always be people who detest the very sight of you and verbally abuse you. How does that help you in having a great life? If you are just turning gay/already gay because of trivial reasons like these, its sad.
Any non-straight people who reads this post would hate me to the core. They'd be having so many rebuttals in their mind to throw at my face and accuse me of being this and that.
Let me get this straight, I'm not a homophobic. I don't mean to offend. I don't intend to set up a fan page on facebook for haters to screw me on. I don't have any strong desire to turn violent towards gays. I'm just voicing out my opinions.
I'm just speaking based on my religion. If you're not, then I don't have anything against you because its not your fault. You're born that way. But if you are, this is for you.
Its extremely saddening.
