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Wednesday, February 3, 2010

If a guy calls you cute, he is looking at your face.
If a guy calls you hot,he is looking at your body but
if a guy calls you beautiful,he is looking at your heart.

I totally agree with this,except for the part about a guy calling you beautiful. Some guys looking at a girl's face,body OR face AND body may say its beautiful isn't it?

I hate how some guys think they can have your attention whenever they want it. Dont forget girls aren't xbox games, we're not made to be thrown to the side when you've found a new and more interesting one.

Its a common fact that human beings are hypocrites. But can it really be helped? For example, if you have a colleague that you HAVE to work with but you know he/she doesn't like you and its a mutual feeling of hate between the both of you, wouldn't you still try to put ur differences aside and be nice to each other? Isn't this hypocrisy? Or is it different from being a hypocrite because it actually benefits you? Is there such a thing as beneficial hypocrisy? At the same time, when you are doing this whole act of being nice to each other, you would know for yourself that what you're doing is wrong and fake. But you'd continue doing it. Is it because you wouldn't want to complicate issues? Maybe it all depends on the situation. Say if you have to work with the person you hate the most in your office to save the world, then obviously, hypocrisy is the way to go. But what if its something as minor as say, getting to know a new person. Would you try to like the same things as they do and not do what they do not do just because you want their acceptance? Please do not cringe at this statement. I am sure that almost everyone in this world has been guilty of this at some point in their life. Whether or not they have realised the superficiality of it all and stopped, that is a different story. But, it is normal right? Then why do I always see bold statements that are supposed to be "original" coming from MAINLY girls saying things like,
"THIS IS ME. LOVE IT OR LEAVE IT."
or
"I AM WHO I AM. YOU CAN'T CHANGE ME"
or
"I AM UNIQUE. DO NOT TRY TO CHANGE ME COS I WON'T CHANGE FOR ANYONE."

You know, statements along this line. I admit, it makes one feel good. Like, they're being true to themselves and daring the world to accept them for who they are because they are fierce ladies who won't change for anyone. bla3.
Ok, I'm being honest here. I am guilty of the statement above. I do not like people trying to change me. I am who I am. But, this only applies to CERTAIN situations. Say, if someone does not like my fashion sense, my character, my voice, my face..this are things that I cannot be bothered to bother with. But habits? Priorities? Etiquttes?
Now, this is definitely something that I would change if someone I know does not like it. Don't ask me why. I just feel this way. But at least I try. I try to be honest with myself as much as I can but when this kinda situations come about, yes, I would change myself to adapt. Human nature? haha. I don't know. But I have a strong suspicion it is. Anyways, now that I have cleared my mind and set a distinction between what I would change and what I would not, I wonder what you people would change or would not. Please,I BEG OF YOU, don't claim that there's nothing you would change for anyone. Then, you'll only being a hypocrite to your ownself. Which is much worse yea?

Gnites lovelies.
XOXO.

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